Month: June 2012


History of BDSM

A talk with Peter Tupper who writes an incredible blog on the history of BDSM.

We talk religion, people with BDSM relationships from yesteryear, how common kink was in literature and even how sex workers would specialize their practice for their clients long ago.

You can find his blog at



Say Please

Sinclair Sexsmith returns to the podcast. This time we talk about becoming poly, the new book “Say Please:Lesbian BDSM Erotica”, qualities of good erotica, gagging on sex toys and a whole bunch more.

Plus I’ve decided to take a break from the podcast after we hit episode 100. More details to come.

You can buy the book here.

Find Sinclair online at,,

We mentioned Andrea Zanin’s “10 realistic rules for good non-monogamous relationships”, you can find it here.